How Guilt Led To A Divorce

The Myth of Failure

Nothing in the human experience is more universal than failure. The ways we fail vary, and some of our slip-ups are more serious than others. But almost every day, and often many times throughout the day, we make mistakes.

How Guilt Led To A Divorce

At 40,000 Feet Above Ground

About 30 minutes later, I arrived by the gate. As the flight was boarding, I suddenly heard my name called to go to the gate desk. Approaching the counter, the woman working the desk handed me a new boarding pass in the Premier Business Class section. Moments later, I’m enjoying a flatbed seat without paying anything extra or using any of my frequent flier points.

How Guilt Led To A Divorce

Flight To Los Angeles

One time, I was scheduled on a flight from Europe to Los Angeles. Arriving early at the airport, I asked the check-in staff if I could use my points to upgrade to a flatbed seat in Premier Business Class. The representative assured me that it was possible, but I would need to visit the sales office in another section of the airport. So I went there and was yet again referred to another sales office on the gate side of the terminal.

How Guilt Led To A Divorce

Gratitude Paves The Way For Good Things To Happen

Being grateful is a way to stop arguing with what is, and remain in a place of inner happiness. When you complain, you poison your state of consciousness with unhappiness. The ego associates victimization with sadness. The subconscious makes the case that “I have the right to be unhappy because I have been wronged.”